Friends do not remain friend anymore... when they start judging you for everything u do & shared with them at any weak point of time with a blind trust. They do everything to change u, & then change themselves, putting all blame on u... Even then they don’t have any guilt for anything they have done in their lives for changing other’s view about the life.

Why u r thr...??

Today m not feeling good... n i dun knw why... feeling so blue.. so lonely.. n so.. (...no words!)
why sometimes in our life people become so important to us... so that they consider u as granted.i need not to ask this ques... as i knw the ans... this happens probably when we r getting so much into ones life.... i know people need space in their life... but if it is so... then why they involved initially.. so much with us.... dun they know anything...?? .....anything???
however, i know that all relations in life are not for lifetime...
There are three types of relations that we get in our life.....
first is when someone is in ur life for a REASON, ....it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.... ever in ur life.
They have come to assist u physically, emotionally or spiritually....
They may seem like a godsend and they are...
Then, after sometime without any wrongdoing on ur part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. (i knw u were thinking that for me... that one day this 'll be the fate of our relation...ANYWAYS... QUITE POSSIBLE no worries!) (no matters to wat extent this can be true...... but u dint like my theses words na..?? i knw ... anyways but i'll write as it is my blog! n today i am mood in of writing .... :) ) (so anyways continue..)..Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they make u to take a back step.... watever but ..
the prayer you sent up has been answered.... and finally after doin everything they left!


Similarly, some people come into ur life for a SEASON, it is a time to... share... grow... and learn...
They bring u an experience of peace or make u laugh. They may teach u something.. u have never done. They usually give u an unbelievable amount of joy.... :) Believe it, as it is real ! ...... but unfortunately only for a season.! (does it resembles to ours!!???)


The third one is.. a LIFETIME relationship... which teaches u lifetime lessons..., the things that u must have... for a solid emotional foundation. ur job is to accept the lesson... love the person(wid respect) and put whatever u have learned in this relation to all other relationships.... and areas of ur life.. (here i must say... love is blind..!! Why!??) (and frendship closes its eyes! :) )

I have one Ques. for you....*Why u had come to my life?? for A REASON, for A SEASON, or for LIFETIME...(least probable .. i suppose! :) )
*u need not to ans ... however... :) (As i dun wanna listen... )

Any ways .....Thank you (everybody) for being a part of my life, ......whether u were a reason, a season or a lifetime. (least probable........ u can be happy... as m also not thinking for that! really ).

(enough writing today.... ! time to publish now... wanna read more??? my exams are approaching. okk..! so rest after my exams :) ) n haan dun worry... m not that much insanely sentimental... as it seems from my blog writing... m as normal as any gal can be :)

Believe while others ..

--- By William Arthur Ward

Believe while others are doubting.
Plan while others are playing.
Study while others are sleeping.
Decide while others are delaying.
Prepare while others are daydreaming.
Begin while others are procrastinating.
Work while others are wishing.
Save while others are wasting.
Listen while others are talking.
Smile while others are frowning.
Commend while others are criticizing.
Persist while others are quitting.

The lonely u feel… the lonelier, world make u to feel…….

Jo rahte hai dil mein,
vo juda nahi hote,
kuchh ahsaas lafzo mein
bayan nahi hote,
ek hasrat hai unhe manane ki,
vo itne achhey hai ki
kabhi khafa nahi hote