LESSONS OF LIFE

I feared being alone
Until I learned to like
Myself.


I feared failure
Until I realized that I only
Fail when I don't try.


I feared success
Until I realized
That I had to try
In order to be happy
With myself.


I feared people's opinions
Until I learned that
People would have opinions
About me anyway.


I feared rejection
Until I learned to
Have faith in myself.



I feared pain
Until I learned that
it's necessary
For growth.


I feared the truth
Until I saw the
Ugliness in lies.


I feared life
Until I experienced
Its beauty .


I feared death
Until I realized that it's
Not an end, but a beginning.


I feared my destiny,
Until I realized that
I had the power to change
My life.


I feared hate
Until I saw that it
Was nothing more than
Ignorance.


I feared love
Until it touched my heart,
Making the darkness fade
Into endless sunny days.

I am sorry

Two Little Words


"I'm sorry" is just two little words;
But they're words I have to say.
For the pain that i have caused you;
In my terrible, thoughtless way.

I can't believe I could hurt you;
And cause you such awful pain.
You're still inside my heart and soul;
And there, you'll always remain.

All I can say are those two words;
And I mean them with all my being.
And when I tell you "I'm sorry".
It comes with heartfelt meaning.

Two words I beg, From you in return;
They would give me will to live.
Just two little words are all I ask;
Those two little words are, "I forgive".

---- BETTY Hawkins

I even don't want these TWO words.... never ever...
Don't Forgive Me......

Few Tips For A Positive Attitude In Life

Living in the world requires you to have a thick mental skin :). Not only do you have to handle your personal problems, but you also must deal with many professional problems. While no one is entirely immune to the effects of negative events, there are several things you can do to build up your mental immune system and help ensure that you succeed in life.
1) Stay healthy - Eat, sleep, and exercise. You know how much sleep you need, and for the most part you probably have a good idea about how to eat right and exercise properly. If you have a problem in any of these areas, you won't be able to focus well on anything.
2) Find ways to keep yourself mentally pumped up - Get some motivational books, tapes, and CDs. Look for stories, movies, and music that inspire you. Make a list of all the tremendous events in your life, everything you're thankful for, and all the times you want to remember, and then focus on those as much as you can. Use affirmations such as "I can do it," "I am the best," and "I feel healthy, I feel happy, I feel terrific." Say them with as much enthusiasm and energy as you can when you first get up in the morning and during the day.
3) Assign the proper meaning to events - Probably the best way to make yourself immune to the negatives of life and develop an extremely strong psyche is to adopt beliefs that empower you. See problems as challenges to overcome. What can you learn from each situation? How can you best handle each situation? How might you look at the situation differently? If there is a real problem, face it head on and tackle it immediately.
4) Keep your perspective - Very few things are matters of life and death. One large sale made or lost will not make or break you. If you lose a big opportunity, there are more opportunities to be made. If you make a big success, enjoy it but don't rest on your laurels. And don't take things personally. A rejection of your offer or suggestion is not a rejection of you.
5) Be positive yet stay grounded in the real world - Be cheerful and optimistic, expect the best, but have a plan for when the worst happens-because occasionally it will.
6) Watch your mental diet and stay away from negatives - Your mental diet is just as important as your physical diet. You have to watch what goes into your brain. Your attitude and your state of mind are extremely important to your long-term success. Put lots of good things into your mind and surround yourself with the right people. Stay away from negatives.