Life is always not that much... EASY.

Today something happened... not of worth writing i knw... still m writing.... one of my frend got divorced..! m sad.... disappointed this thing sud not happened... n i dun knw... how years long relations dies... in a moment... especially even when u have a connecting link between you... ---- a KID!!!
however i knw that i dun have any right for commenting on one's personal life.... every person have its own point of view n life... n everybody have right to live its life in his/her manner.... n i truly Respect this right.....!!
still i dun knw.... how things goes wrong to such an extent....that u can't live wid a person anymore wid whom u have taken oath for living together n for 'do us part till death n beyond...' kinda things!.. but i can never take a divorce... no matter how he will be....! (really) it will be much more easier for me to die... then to take divorce!... i suppose :) still i know very well that my life partner will be the best... n definitely will be my LIFE! :) although i m not expecting too much from him... but i have 200% confidence on him.... :) (whoever he'll be! :) )

one thing i knw about myself is that... as far as adjustment is concerned, i can adjust with any damn buddy in this world...! (m not exaggerating) but... if you can leave me wid my own choice .... then my choice will be certainly the best in this world.... :) this is the reason... i suppose... that m still single.... :) lolz (as i m still searching that Mr. Perfect for me... :) lolz )
who is atleast difficult to find if not impossible.. :)
otherwise nothing 'll happen... this type of people will marry to a person... who is chosen by their parents... :) lolz... n they have started falling (rising actually ... :) ) in love with that person only.... :) --- AS in a typical Indian marriage... :)
Isn't!!??? :)

SOME OF THE BEST MOMENTS in the life..

SOME OF THE BEST MOMENTS in the life.. Lying in the bed listening to the rain outside; Thinking abt the person U LOVE THE MOST; Taking a long drive on CLaM ROaD; A sweet n emotional CONVERSATION; Finding money in ur old jeans just whn u NEEDED; Giggling nAUGHTILY; Holding hands with ur friend or love for a WALK; Getting a HUG from someone u care the most.. The MOMENTS ur eyes are filled with tears after a BIG LAUGH..
wish u all these moments..

Friends do not remain friend anymore... when they start judging you for everything u do & shared with them at any weak point of time with a blind trust. They do everything to change u, & then change themselves, putting all blame on u... Even then they don’t have any guilt for anything they have done in their lives for changing other’s view about the life.

Why u r thr...??

Today m not feeling good... n i dun knw why... feeling so blue.. so lonely.. n so.. (...no words!)
why sometimes in our life people become so important to us... so that they consider u as granted.i need not to ask this ques... as i knw the ans... this happens probably when we r getting so much into ones life.... i know people need space in their life... but if it is so... then why they involved initially.. so much with us.... dun they know anything...?? .....anything???
however, i know that all relations in life are not for lifetime...
There are three types of relations that we get in our life.....
first is when someone is in ur life for a REASON, ....it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.... ever in ur life.
They have come to assist u physically, emotionally or spiritually....
They may seem like a godsend and they are...
Then, after sometime without any wrongdoing on ur part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. (i knw u were thinking that for me... that one day this 'll be the fate of our relation...ANYWAYS... QUITE POSSIBLE no worries!) (no matters to wat extent this can be true...... but u dint like my theses words na..?? i knw ... anyways but i'll write as it is my blog! n today i am mood in of writing .... :) ) (so anyways continue..)..Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they make u to take a back step.... watever but ..
the prayer you sent up has been answered.... and finally after doin everything they left!


Similarly, some people come into ur life for a SEASON, it is a time to... share... grow... and learn...
They bring u an experience of peace or make u laugh. They may teach u something.. u have never done. They usually give u an unbelievable amount of joy.... :) Believe it, as it is real ! ...... but unfortunately only for a season.! (does it resembles to ours!!???)


The third one is.. a LIFETIME relationship... which teaches u lifetime lessons..., the things that u must have... for a solid emotional foundation. ur job is to accept the lesson... love the person(wid respect) and put whatever u have learned in this relation to all other relationships.... and areas of ur life.. (here i must say... love is blind..!! Why!??) (and frendship closes its eyes! :) )

I have one Ques. for you....*Why u had come to my life?? for A REASON, for A SEASON, or for LIFETIME...(least probable .. i suppose! :) )
*u need not to ans ... however... :) (As i dun wanna listen... )

Any ways .....Thank you (everybody) for being a part of my life, ......whether u were a reason, a season or a lifetime. (least probable........ u can be happy... as m also not thinking for that! really ).

(enough writing today.... ! time to publish now... wanna read more??? my exams are approaching. okk..! so rest after my exams :) ) n haan dun worry... m not that much insanely sentimental... as it seems from my blog writing... m as normal as any gal can be :)

Believe while others ..

--- By William Arthur Ward

Believe while others are doubting.
Plan while others are playing.
Study while others are sleeping.
Decide while others are delaying.
Prepare while others are daydreaming.
Begin while others are procrastinating.
Work while others are wishing.
Save while others are wasting.
Listen while others are talking.
Smile while others are frowning.
Commend while others are criticizing.
Persist while others are quitting.

The lonely u feel… the lonelier, world make u to feel…….

Jo rahte hai dil mein,
vo juda nahi hote,
kuchh ahsaas lafzo mein
bayan nahi hote,
ek hasrat hai unhe manane ki,
vo itne achhey hai ki
kabhi khafa nahi hote

LESSONS OF LIFE

I feared being alone
Until I learned to like
Myself.


I feared failure
Until I realized that I only
Fail when I don't try.


I feared success
Until I realized
That I had to try
In order to be happy
With myself.


I feared people's opinions
Until I learned that
People would have opinions
About me anyway.


I feared rejection
Until I learned to
Have faith in myself.



I feared pain
Until I learned that
it's necessary
For growth.


I feared the truth
Until I saw the
Ugliness in lies.


I feared life
Until I experienced
Its beauty .


I feared death
Until I realized that it's
Not an end, but a beginning.


I feared my destiny,
Until I realized that
I had the power to change
My life.


I feared hate
Until I saw that it
Was nothing more than
Ignorance.


I feared love
Until it touched my heart,
Making the darkness fade
Into endless sunny days.

I am sorry

Two Little Words


"I'm sorry" is just two little words;
But they're words I have to say.
For the pain that i have caused you;
In my terrible, thoughtless way.

I can't believe I could hurt you;
And cause you such awful pain.
You're still inside my heart and soul;
And there, you'll always remain.

All I can say are those two words;
And I mean them with all my being.
And when I tell you "I'm sorry".
It comes with heartfelt meaning.

Two words I beg, From you in return;
They would give me will to live.
Just two little words are all I ask;
Those two little words are, "I forgive".

---- BETTY Hawkins

I even don't want these TWO words.... never ever...
Don't Forgive Me......

Few Tips For A Positive Attitude In Life

Living in the world requires you to have a thick mental skin :). Not only do you have to handle your personal problems, but you also must deal with many professional problems. While no one is entirely immune to the effects of negative events, there are several things you can do to build up your mental immune system and help ensure that you succeed in life.
1) Stay healthy - Eat, sleep, and exercise. You know how much sleep you need, and for the most part you probably have a good idea about how to eat right and exercise properly. If you have a problem in any of these areas, you won't be able to focus well on anything.
2) Find ways to keep yourself mentally pumped up - Get some motivational books, tapes, and CDs. Look for stories, movies, and music that inspire you. Make a list of all the tremendous events in your life, everything you're thankful for, and all the times you want to remember, and then focus on those as much as you can. Use affirmations such as "I can do it," "I am the best," and "I feel healthy, I feel happy, I feel terrific." Say them with as much enthusiasm and energy as you can when you first get up in the morning and during the day.
3) Assign the proper meaning to events - Probably the best way to make yourself immune to the negatives of life and develop an extremely strong psyche is to adopt beliefs that empower you. See problems as challenges to overcome. What can you learn from each situation? How can you best handle each situation? How might you look at the situation differently? If there is a real problem, face it head on and tackle it immediately.
4) Keep your perspective - Very few things are matters of life and death. One large sale made or lost will not make or break you. If you lose a big opportunity, there are more opportunities to be made. If you make a big success, enjoy it but don't rest on your laurels. And don't take things personally. A rejection of your offer or suggestion is not a rejection of you.
5) Be positive yet stay grounded in the real world - Be cheerful and optimistic, expect the best, but have a plan for when the worst happens-because occasionally it will.
6) Watch your mental diet and stay away from negatives - Your mental diet is just as important as your physical diet. You have to watch what goes into your brain. Your attitude and your state of mind are extremely important to your long-term success. Put lots of good things into your mind and surround yourself with the right people. Stay away from negatives.

THE STRANGER..............

A social network… like Orkut..That was the first time… that I had added some one unknown in my orkut account. He had written something interesting… yup!! I agreed that many times… a things seems interesting to a girl.. seems not that much good to a bozo.. but yup..! I not only i had added him… but also given a nice … although a bit curtly … but positive reply. :)

Its long time… ago… since from that time…. Yup…!! 1 year… (no even little more than 1 year and little more than 1 month. :) ) (yup! Thats wat he said…!)
We use to talk daily… almost daily… Once he told me… that I am the first person he searches on gtalk whenever he login… similar thing I use to do… although I never said this…! but yes.. I does nothing different. However it was not from the very starting that I use to look for him… whenever I logined… but yes..!! now after such long period of talking… me too..! and this thing happens..! hope u agree…!!
M a gal… who never want to get inclined to anybody… means towards any guy… may be m too scared to do so… but still m always happy n jolly… yes! Sometime… I became sad too…. But only for time being…. That time… the best remedy is My Mom n offcourse DaD on My Phone offcourse :)….
I use to spend my lot of time… in thinking…… a hell thinking… :) (ahhh… a hell thinker I m!) offcourse good things always… no doubt in that…! even I never use to write… but don’t knw…why today I m feeling like writing… something… may be it release… something… (I don’t kwn … wat is this, however) which is inside u…. and on which u r thinking… a lot..!
It is (this writing..)giving… immense pleasure however…
Many time… I use to fight with him (in fun (mostly :) ))…. Over little… or seemingly… no issues.. (according to him) (I m not agreed , however on this point… there's always something which makes me to feel the difference…..).
I use to know many thing … although I’ll never say I got to knw something abt him or the family… but I got to knw abt me n his conversation…(atleast) …. I don’t knw what u’ll call it… but certainly…. Whenever you talk a lot (applicable even for…. Writing too…..) u get to knw many things… even the unsaid expressions… way of thinking… and offcourse reaction on something… I mean on some incidence or so…. Which I thought resembles very much to mine…. I don’t knw wat he thought abt it… or even he had noticed it ever…. May be gals more observing… (or I think so…. :) )